[Mary V. Chisholm Cooke was the granddaughter of pathfinder &
trader Jesse Chisholm. Transcribed and annotated by
Kerry M. Armstrong, 22 MAR 1995. Revised 29 NOV 1995.]
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I Mary V. Chisholm Cooke1 was Born in the year
of 1868 Jan 1st & I now in my 72nd year. My first recolection
of Life was in Sept [23, 1872]. I was about four &
a half year old when my Mother & father talking & he2
took me & my next younger Sister Alice Chisholm3,
2 years old [born] Feb 12th 1870, about out on our front
poorch & keeping us all morning & a part of the evening
after the Noon meal. About 4 P.M. we went in to see the new baby
a sister, Cora Ann Chisholm4 & we were very
proud of our little blue eyed Sister. She was named for one of
my fathers Sisters. My Grandfathers second wife & his second
Daughter & I was named for the last daughter Mary5
as my two older Sisters6 called me Little Mary.
From then all I can remember was visiting my fathers step-Mother7
& family at the old Chisholm Springs8 where
he [Jesse Chisholm]9 lived when he died
in April 4th 1868, Potawotamie County Oklahoma. I remember when
Grany Sar-kar-ka [Sah-kah-kee] died & my father
went up, devided the stuff & brought back some $20.-- Gold
pieces, was all he took. He gave the other children the properties,
Mules, Horses & Cows. She had a girl10 & b[o]y11
by her last husband, Jackson Chisholm12, an
adopted boy he [Jesse Chishlom] raised.
I never knew where the new baby came from but was proud of it
[as] I remember.
I think every thing happened [___?___]Chisholms teams &
I think he got one team of Mules & a wagon, as there was his
wife & 4 other children. My Mother13 had farm tools
& she controlled her stock & Properties till she died.
Then the Estate was Administered on by her fathers 1/2 bro B.
F. McLish14, who lived with us untill her death,
which was in 1883 Aug 30th. She lived 20 years & about 8 mos15
& had 8 children, 7 girls & 1 boy16 (I'll tell
about later on.) in life.
My father ran a store at old Johnsonville with a old Charlie
Campbell17 & my mother milked her cows, made
Butter & Cheese & sold it by sending off when my father
went for supplies. He sold Cheese to the Stores & she took
orders for the Butter. You never had to feed the stock. She made
10 lbs of butter at a hand churn. She had the men make her a Cheese
Press & got canvasing & the Keelers & they were just
like small wooden tubes, like we used to have. We had Cedar Churns
& buckets & My father put out a large Orchards & he
moved some bearing trees from some old Fort18 &
some of them never stopped bearing & we had Gooseberries bearing
the 1st year he set them out & I first remember of him working
in his Orchard & in later years he had a fine place.
He died (William E. Chisholm) in 1880 Nov 19th, 3 years
before my Mother died. She raised her stock & dried fruits
& fresh & when she died, we had a dozen large Midlin Meat
in the Smoke House. Stands of Lard, Jars of Honey & all kinds
of fruit. I never knew what become of it. My Mother & father
were both industrious & like to make a good home & we
had a good house of logs, 5 rooms & porches. Good log barns,
Graneries, Smoke House, Well house & a wooden pump, as my
father tought we might some of us fall in the Well.
My mother was a good Seamtress, (she had a Sewing Machine) &
done her own Sewing & cooking (until my oldest Sister helped
her & later took charge of the kitchen & my next sister
the bed rooms, washing & Ironing & I & my next sister
helped my Mother Milk, churn & tend to geting in the Stock.
My early like was hard work. We spent a life at home. A few Indian
familys that was thriftless & my mother & father mostly
feed. All my life we had an abundance of food, but flour early
in my life was hard to get & we only had biscuits for Breakfast
on Sundays & sometimes pies & Chicken & dumplings,
until my father began to sow wheat & take it to Birds
Mill19 & have it ground & took corn too. We
used to have a hand mill to grind the meal on. A block to make
Hominey on & we raised 4 kinds of corn. Mr Smith, P.A.
& my father bought a thrasher, Corn sheller & a little
binder & we then had all kinds of flour. My mother use to
parch the corn & pound it with a morter & you put Sugar
in it & wet it with water & it beat all the breafast cerals.
& the foods one could prepare out of corn was wanderful. Hog
& Hominey Tamfuller, Peshofa, Corn light bread, Tambutter,
Corn & beans. If put up in shucks like Hot Tamalies &
a lot of Oposum Grapes made of the juice & balls of corn meal
droped in it & its ready to eat anytime & if required
a very little Sugar. My [mother] could make Light Bread,
Cakes & pies that would equal any Cook of today. I have heard
People ask her if she went to a cooking school. She never used
a recipe for anything or I never did either.
As I loved cooking & never cooked a meal in my life until
after my mother died in 1883. (& I'll tell about later.) After
my fathers death, we never noticed any difference in the place,
every thing was carried on excepting we didnt raise any crops
but what the Renters raised, but still raised stock & the
wonderful garden & Potatoes, Irish & Sweet, & Rostin
ear Patch. Always a Squaw Corn patch. Flour corn for meal &
a Flint Corn for hominey. She had raised enough steers to sell
in June 1883 to buy to build a frame house & she had every
things constuck it with even the Paper & it was sold after
her death to Nathan Byars20 & was never
payed for.
She took sick after her last trip to the R. Rah Atoka to finish her buying. 2 wagons went & I along & she was sick when we got back & only lived 30 days after she become bed fast. She had an ascess on her lungs. My Sister Angeline B. Chisholm (who married S.W. Lee in 1885), rode to Shawnee & seen the Government Dr. who was a Dr. Crain. We rode horse back & went up one day & back the next for medicine for her, but he said it was T.B. & there was nothing to be done. She never wanted to be any trouble at all. People would come in to set up & they would sit up in the Dinning room. She passed on without a struggle & never complained or grunted. [It was?] just like falling asleep. She lived A Christian life & died young. She joined the [Methodist?] early in her life. She was such a lonely child. After she visited her father & met her half sister21 & dearly loved her. Her only brother22 got accidentally killed & she felt so alone. Her [half] sister Lue Bruno married my fathers 1st cousin23 as his mother24 was a sister of Eliza Edwards my fathers mother. She visited my Mother until she died & I never seen her again after her death. Her fathers last wife25.
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the first handwritten manuscript ends and I suspect there were
one or more pages missing. The next transcribed section begins
below. The original manuscript begins with a page "1".]
I can rember of alone Pa(w)nee Indian passing here at the
home place & I dont remember just how old I was but I was
small & he seemed in a hurry. The horse was a bay Indian poney.
There was several Indians came after them or him & they caught
him on the South Bank of the S. Canadian River & killed him
as he had stole the Horse & run away with him. They threw
him up in a Black Haw bush as he was not worthy to be burried.
I remembered another man my Grandfather raised by the name of
George Caboon & went by the name of George Chisholm
& he used to come to my fathers house William E. Chisholms
for corn to make bread. I was real small & I can remember
the old Salt Kittler being here that was my grandfather Jesse
Chisholms early in life, but dont know what has become of
them.
My grandfathers death was talked of quite often [in?] my
early recolection of Life for P.A. Smith & a negro
boy he raised & worked for my father & after my husband
William V. Cooke married me, worked for him. He said his
was a Creek Freedman & he went to the Creek Nation. P.A.
Smith ran a store in Purcell, after we had our first 4 children
& he went to his house in Ohio & died. He had a daughter
there who was born when his first wife died. He never married
again that was before he came to work for Grandfather Jesse
Chisholm. My father & mother talked a lot about his fathers
death as he seemed to be near & dear to him & my mother
spoke of him as a fine & great man & was thought of very
much. All of my first recolections of visiting was Grany Sah-kash-Kee's
home & John & Bob Deer26 as they were
great friends of my fathers & lived over where Boyer27
is now & later moved to the Deer-flat N & W of Shawnee.
I remember very clear of a goat butting me over as I went to go
from one Cabin to an other. I remember of my father shoeing his
own horses. My mother had Slaves, Cattle & horses & she
was well educated. A good cook, seamtress & went to Bloomfield
Seminary.
My father was our first school teacher & when he died I was
12 years of age [he died] in 1880 on November 19th &
I went to school in 81 & was in the 4th grade at old Wapanucka
Seminary in Sept 1881. He sent us to Atoka to school one fall,
[1876], I was 8 years old & Alice was 6 past
& 10 & 12 my oldest sisters. Everyone had Pneumonia
& came home. One of my mothers neices Ellen Bruno28
took it first & died. My sister Angeline was not expected
to live & they wrote my father to come down & he &
a cosin Bud Biggs29 from Cal was here &
they rode horse back from home to Atoka & he [Bud Biggs]
took Pneumonia the 1st nite & died in 3 days & they burried
him at Atoka, but my cosins father & his bro came & took
her [Ellen Bruno's] corps to their old home near
Sasawka30 & burried her. Her Grandmother Lucinda
Bruno & her Grandmother Sallie McLish, her mothers
mother was burried there31. Also her father Nathan
Bruno and her 2 brothers Joseph & Frasher was burried
there all three being murdered. I remembered visiting them &
they did us. Nathan Bruno & my father were 1st cosins,
sisters children & were like bro & married sisters or
1/2 sisters32.
My mother & father had 8 children, 7 girls33 &
one boy34. After we all had Pneumonia at Atoka, my
father would never consent to send us a way from home to School
until the fall he died in 1880. He had a good education for those
days & wrote a good hand. I never knew where he went to school.
My 2 oldest sisters went to Bloomfield where my Mother went &
I went in 1882 & 1883. I was not permitted to go there after
my mother died in 1883. I was then an orphan & the Supt. said
I couldnt. So he wanted me to go to Lebanon to the Orphan Home
for Chickasaws. Alice, Cora & Estelle35
went there but I would not. I went to a day school at Wynnewood
in 1885 & I married in 1885 - Nov 19th36 on the
same day of the Mon my father died. My mothers Stepmother came
to see her in 1883 just before she died & I never seen any
of them after my mother died or any of my fathers people while
my mother lived. After I married, one of Aunt Lue's daughters
husbands visited us & spent a nite in our home & about
42 years ago & at the Indian Meeting for Selecting an Chickasaw
Gov to succeed Gov. D. H. Johnston at Seela Chapill37
in July 26th 1939, I met one of her sons Joe Gilmore &
his son who was studying for the Ministery. My fathers Cosin [Nathan
Bruno] was found at his old home killed & I dont know
who or how it was done but before he was killed his youngest son
Frasher was killed at old Anoca Springs. He & some
boys had been to Lexington & he was returning home & he
had quite a bit of money on him. Joe Bruno was killed at
home down in the field in some Plumb Bushes, [he was found?]
by some one gathering Plumbs a good while after he was murdered.
They lived near Sasawka & had every since I could remember
& before his mother, Nathan's died, she lived alone
in the woods in a log cabin. Aunt Lue's mother lived with
them. Grandpa McLishes last wife & we called her Grany
Sallie38 & his [Nathan's] mother,
grandma Lucinda.
My mother's mother died when she was small and their was only
2 children, a boy Ed Colbert McLish & he was kill in
an accident. Grandfather Frasher McLish was a Mason &
died over in Paris Texas & was burried there & they moved
his body on Sandy at the old Bradly39 place
in 1871. On Big Sandy between here & Ada, or old Stonewall
then.
The Bynums40 was my Mothers closest relatives
& she was a Colbert41 & married a Bynum42.
My Mothers Aunt & her youngest daughter married D. H. Johnston
& had 2 children, a son & a daughter who died real young.
She & Uncle Douglas were here soon as they heard of
my Mothers death & stayed with us a while. My Mother &
father died young. He was 43 & she was 37. She died with T.
B. & he died with Peunumonia.
My father plaid the Piano & my mother the Violin. She joined
the Methodist early in Life. She was a wonderful worker &
manager & he was a good Manager. I can remember when our Supplies
were carried in from Caldwill Kans on pack horses & we only
had Biscuits on Sunday morning & some time dumplings &
pie. Of course we had Hominey, Corn Meal & all kinds of Indian
dishes made of corn. Coal flour, Corn dumplings & Sofka, Tamfula
& an abundance of Wild fruits & Game to eat. My father
was a great hunter. Deer, Turkey mostly, Quails, Squirles. We
even ate Rabits & I dont now. We had an abundance of Beef
& hog meats the year around.
Governor John Brown of the Siminoles & my father were
great friends & he visited in our home & us in his at
Sas. A sister Alice Davis43 was our friend &
Neighbor too.
There was no Sale for cattle or hogs either. Once in a while you
could sell 8 - 10 or 12 2 year old Heifers & you sold hogs
2 or 3 years old, one in a while. We never thought of kill 2 or
3 year old Steers than we would a chicken. We never sold a chicken
or egg ate & used all we could & threw the eggs away by
tubs & Honey wild & tame too. All kinds of fruits &
an abundance of Garden stuff. They had to save all seeds &
even Irish potatoes. Sweet too. The Season around.